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An efficient network security system
The main aspect of an efficient network security system is to keep the network running and safe for all legitimate users.
Fraud
The main characteristic of an efficient network security system is to keep the network running and safe for all legitimate users (visit https://www.fortinet.com/solutions/industries/manufacturing and learn more). These legitimate users are either employed by a large company or by a government or organization that is trustworthy, though they are typically not represented in the system in the same way as active members.
While we do not necessarily require an entire network to be robust against fraudulent activities, an efficient network security system may still be vulnerable to certain types of fraud. A huge component of this vulnerability is that most members of the network must be unaware of a massive crisis occurring or attempt to plan around it and/or on-ramp any potential victims in advance, otherwise network operations might suffer. While this may help mitigate potential security problems, it also makes it hard for the attackers to identify and fix the problem.
It is essential to monitor every available aspect of network security systems (i.e. their operation, vulnerabilities, and use cases) to identify potential fraud.
Cost Benefit Analysis
Once a network has established security best practices and a network health dashboard, the next step is to determine if the cost benefits justify the investment. Cost benefits are important considerations when looking at everything from the cost of hardware to infrastructure to IT training to salaries and benefits.
These have been investigated thoroughly by Kroll Ontrack to look at some of the more commonly referenced cost-benefit ratios:
Optimize Software
While an efficient network security system can help prevent fraud, it is possible to mitigate the risk of fraud even with high security practices. For example, it is possible to provide an alert-based system for security, based on the data gathered by the network security system (e.g. log statements) to detect anomalous activity. At the same time, there is an opportunity to reduce the risk of fraud with a maintenance interval of one day. These considerations show that there is value in providing early detection services that provide fraud detection benefits as well especially when you use data management applications and cloud services. For more database and cloud software options visit https://blog.couchbase.com/hybrid-cloud-couchbase/.
Consider security maintenance
Another consideration of optimization is the value of improving security services on the network. Increasingly the cost of services like the one discussed above (i.e. an on-ramp) may become necessary. While an on-ramp is beneficial, certain security features are valuable for an entire network.
Consider Network Operations Costs
Once a network has established security best practices and an effective network security system has been established, this creates additional costs to support the network. During the construction phase of a project the costs involved are large but do not have to be very costly.
Construction costs are relatively easy to quantify, though this isn’t always the case. If a builder can identify the infrastructure in advance, reduce cost by identifying where expenses may be incurred by doing a cost-benefit analysis, and then prove the cost benefits with evidence that this cost reduction is indeed achieved, a better cost benefit ratio can be achieved. This may include saving money in parts of the organization, enabling additional quality of service (QoS) and/or increased security efficiencies.
#Oola Challenge: Day 3
This month, I’m participating in the Oola Challenge. I’m sharing my reflections on the daily assignments. If you are joining me on the challenge, share your reflections in the comments.
May 3: It’s easy to get caught up in our thoughts. We overthink, re-think, over generalize, and jump to conclusions. The patterns of our lives and the world we live in make it easy to do. We wake up thinking, and we have a hard time falling asleep because our minds are running. So…Today’s #OolaChallenge is to pray about something as often as you think about it. This will require us to pray bold prayers. The things that take up so much space in our mind and thoughts usually make for the boldest prayers. Pray about your worries, your stresses, your fears, your questions, your blessings, your loves ones. Nothing is too great for God. Start by simply starting your day with a prayer and ending your day with a prayer. And if you really want to challenge yourself, whenever you find yourself thinking about something, let that be your cue to pray about it. Use today to try and pray about things as much as you think about them.
Ugh. I needed this one. Because it is a hard. Because it is such a departure from my daily mindset.
I didn’t used to be bad about praying. Prayer was an ongoing part of my day. Prayer was a spiritual discipline that I was very intentional about cultivating. Oh to be young and childless!
Prayer was easy when it was just me and B. He’s largely self sufficient in a way similar to how I’m largely self sufficient but sometimes I get tired of being an adult and cease to be self sufficient. T and W are not yet in that place and in the trenches of being desperately needed, it is so easy to let prayer fall to side to be forgotten. Prayer is reduced to the simplest of prayers. As I learned from Anne Lamott, “Help me help me help me” and “Thank you thank you thank you” are two of the most important to fall back on.
So today I prayed. I may have prayed my quick and dirty desperate prayers of motherhood but I also prayed my slow, intentional prayers. I prayed for my husband while he completed his weekend away at the church men’s retreat. I prayed for T, that he would make good decisions and grow into the person I know he can be. I prayed for W, that his body will continue to improve and that he is able to crawl. I prayed for W’s neurologist and the rest of the team that supports him. I prayed for T’s teachers. I prayed for my mother. I prayed my prayers of thanksgiving and I shared my joys and concerns.
Today was the first step in reintegrating prayer into my daily life.
#OolaChallenge: Day 2
This month, I’m doing the Oola Challenge. I’ll be sharing the daily assignment here and my reflections on it as well. If you are joining me on the challenge, either for one day or for all of them, share your reflections in the comments.
May 2: It’s easy to see transformations in our bodies. We commit to a fitness plan and in a few weeks our abs are leaner and our biceps are bigger. It’s transformation we can measure. By inches, by pounds, through calories and reps. But so often we forget about our mental transformation. We get caught up in comparisons and complaints. We focus on how far we are from our goal instead of how far we’ve come. Just as energy fuels our fitness, positivity fuels our feelings of self-worth. So today we’re going to exercise our bodies AND our minds. Today’s #OolaChallenge is to walk or run for 7 minutes and during those 7 minutes, we want you to come up with 7 things you love about yourself most. This might be tricky. You may have to be disciplined about catching your negative thoughts and turning them into positive ones. But it’s important, so even if you have to go a little longer than 7 minutes to get to your 7 things, we hope you follow through.
I made two lists. I completely failed at making my list while walking, since my exercise for the day was chasing a three year old around Sesame Place with an eleven month old strapped to my hip (ring sling for the win or Wynn). Instead, I made my list after getting both boys down for a name but I found that I needed to make two lists.
The first list I made was about my physical self. My postpartum body. I needed to make this list because as a mother, I hear the message that society wants me to erase all signs of a very physical process that changed who I am. I need to celebrate life beyond the 4th trimester and not lose track of the ways that I am wonderfully made. So, in no particular order…
- My milk makers 🙂 I have fed 4 babies with my milk. I am less than a month away from finally earning my golden boobies. God equipped me to fed my children and I’ve been able to do it with milk to spare.
- My hands
- My fingernails (yes, part of my hands but I have really awesome fingernails)
- My legs
- My hair
- My shoulders
- My height
The second list I made was about the qualities I love most about myself. What are the aspects of me that I want to be remembered for? What are the words I want my sons to use to describe me? Who is my best self?
- Loyal
- Honest
- Smart
- Creative
- Loving
- Faithful
- Driven
A Letter to My Oldest
Dear Tristan,
As I write this, you are curled up on my feet watching Handy Manny. At three years and four months old, you are fascinated with anything related to tools. Anything. You want to know about each tool, what it does, if Daddy uses one at work, how old you need to be before you can have that tool, if Mommy has ever used the tool and so on. We discuss tools at great length. I love seeing your passion develop and I love encouraging you to pursue the things that excite you.
You love school. You go to the On My Own program at school, twice a week. You love your teachers, you love your friends and you get so serious about telling me about your day. I wish I could be there to drop you off and pick up but fortunately, you still want to tell me about your class when I pick you up from your Mumma’s house at the end of the day. I’m so excited that school is a place you are excited to go and that you feel encouraged in your learning journey.
You absolutely adore your little brother. You call him your “Wynnipynn” or “Wynn Pynn Pynn”. One of your favorite activities to to tell Wynn about your tools or to give him your old Megablocks while you play next to him with your Duplos. You are his biggest cheerleader during his physical therapy appointments and are very well attuned to his state of being. When he is sick, you want to know what Mommy is doing to fix it. When he is happy, you are usually the source of his mirth.
I can’t believe you have been mine for so long. My life before you seems like a distant memory. I remember it fondly, it was wonderful and it shaped me into the woman I am today but the present day with you and your brother are so much more vibrant than the life I once lived.
I love you.
Mommy
Essential Oils: Cedarwood
I’m a creature of habit. I wake up each morning, I stumble down the stairs to brew a cup of decaf coffee and diffuse a few drops of cedarwood before work. The warm, woody smell takes over my kitchen each morning and gives me a sense of grounding before I start my day.
Cedarwood plays a role in how I manage my ADD. While many people find that cedarwood is relaxing and calming, individuals with ADD may find that it helps them to channel their energy and focus.
It is also documented as an insecticide (add it to an oily bug spray in summer, anti-fungal, an expectorant, antibacterial, anti-infectious, Â antiseptic, astringent (great for oily skin or dandruff prone scalps), diuretic, sedative, lymphatic stimulant, and oxygenator.
I recommend diffusing cedarwood for one hour, up to three times a day or appealing topically. Remember to always dilute if using on your children.
Much like lavender, this is a multitasking oil that will earn its place in your oil stash. At less than $15 a bottle, cedarwood is an oil that gives you a ton of bang for your dollar.
Have a great testimonial about using cedarwood for you or your family? Please share it in the comments section below!
These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. Always consult with your primary care physician before using any essential oil.
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Bankrate
Even if you live in a different country, you can still get some savings. You can easily find a local bank that will compare your account against the national average. Of course, these statistics aren’t available to everyone, but it’s an affordable option to cut down on your money making by comparison shopping.
RetailMeNot
Find out which stores around you are having big discounts during Black Friday and Christmas. As long as you have a credit card, you can use this site to find discount codes that have been available for a while now, and save even more money.
Google Shopping
Although you may have Google, you don’t have to Google. Search in your country’s local language to find something very similar to what you’re looking for in Google Shopping. You can even browse the complete price and find the coupons by yourself and find the good deals!
Groupon
Who says you can’t save money by shopping for three or more items at once? Groupon is a site that allows you to save on not only those three items, but a group of similar items as well. When you get in touch with them, they will even email you coupons and discounts for those items!
CheapoFerretti.com
Are you a fan of Ferretti? If you are, this will be a great place to find out the best deals for Ferretti apparel and accessories. If you’re not a Ferretti fan, this is the site for you!
RedefineYourGroceries.com
You can save even more money by shopping your local grocery stores a few times and checking out other deals before you buy. Check out our article on where to find the best deals for grocery stores, or simply google your city’s grocery store if you can’t find it on RedefineYourGroceries.com.
onlinesavings.org
Online shopping is becoming an easy way of shopping online. If you like to shop, it’s always helpful to consider what to buy and you’ll save a lot of time on this. We’ve put together a list of 21 amazing websites to get you started:
Paychex.com
Many of us struggle with payment options. If you don’t want to deal with the hassle, Paychex provides a simple solution. Paychex offers a different credit card on every card, so you don’t have to worry about a potential fraud charge. It also allows you to check out Paychex.com online so you can get your payment method set up right away!
On Transitioning to a Family of Four
In my naive, only-child ways, I truly believed adjusting to life as a family of four would be easy. B and I have kept a tiny human alive for the last two years and seven months who has become more and more independent. People far less equipped than us have done the same. And the same less equipped people managed to add additional tiny humans to their families. B and I should have had this in the bag.
But here’s the thing. Your independent, creative, funny toddler may start to resemble the Honest Toddler. Suddenly there are temper tantrums coming out of a child that previously kept good listening ears on all day. He’ll only want to eat when the baby is eating and the rest of the time can be found orchestrating a hunger strike with a level of enthusiasm that makes you wonder if Child Protective Services will be appearing at your house soon. When he eventually caves on his hunger strikes, he’ll refuse to eat anything but strawberries (which isn’t helpful because you don’t have any in the house).
Navigating sibling relationships is such a strange journey for me. This is the closest I’ve ever been to siblings before. Even though W is only two weeks old, there is a dynamic relationship forming between him and T. It is fascinating to watch and such a heavy responsibility when I think of all the ways that my behavior will influence that relationship.
If there is one thing I want for my boys, I want them to be close in adulthood. I want them to feel like they always have each other. I want them to be the best man in the other’s wedding. I want them to always have a sense of family because of the other. I don’t want them to feel alone like I frequently do.
Welcome Wynn
On May 20th, at 9:29 in the evening, Brian and I joyfully welcomed our second child, Wynn William. We are so grateful for a healthy boy, a safe delivery and the blessing of becoming a family of 4.
Wynn weighed in at 8 pounds, 4 ounces and 20 inches long. I was in labor for less than 9 hours and pushed for less than a half hour.
While I’m still a bit tender today, my birth experience with Wynn was absolutely incredible and I can honestly say it was everything I ever dreamed of.
On Waiting
I’m waiting. Five days away from my due date with Baby Number 2 and I am waiting.
I am contracting. I am dilated to 3 centimeters. My body is doing everything it is supposed to do but still I wait.
I am ready to have this little boy. I am ready to see his face. I am ready to hold him in my arms. I am ready for this family to become a family of four.
I am tired of waiting in this time of transition.
The one where strangers ask about my uterus
I went to a baby shower this afternoon for a girl I had grown up with at church. I am a few years older than she is so at times I felt like there was some confusion from other people about why I was there but there was always a closeness between the two of us.
Part of what makes a baby shower weird is the number of women who around my mother’s age and older who like to make comments about how “they didn’t have that when I had a baby and my baby turned out fine”. Which may or may not be true, depending on who you ask but that is another topic for another time. What makes it weird is that these are basic safety items. Or items that they wished they had when they were young mom’s but didn’t have available.
The other part that makes the shower weird is how it prompts women to ask those of child bearing age when they are going to have a baby, have another baby or stop having babies. If you have a boy, you are asked if you want a girl. If you have a girl, you are asked if you want a boy. You’ll be asked how many babies you want and questioned about your work status. I always love the question “So you’re a full time mom?” because it implies that for the 40 hours a week that I’m at my employer’s place of business, I stop being a mother. As if it is a switch that I can flip for 8+ hours a day.
For the most part, I’m able to remind myself that these questions come from a kind place. People aren’t asking these questions to make me feel uncomfortable or put me on the spot. They are asking these questions to form a bond, to feel a human connection. They are trying to take an interest in my life. And for that, I am grateful.
Every once in a while, a moment happens that blows my mind. Someone asked me today if I was pregnant as they touched the part of my belly that I’m not quite sure will ever go away even though I’ve been working hard at the gym to lose it. When I smiled and said that I hoped she didn’t know something I didn’t know, she asked if I had plans to get pregnant soon. Apparently, when you pass thirty, time is ticking.
It made me wonder if my uterus if falling down on the job. I had thought we were okay on time. T is only 20 months, full of energy and at a point where he can feel like a full time job. An adorable full time job but much like a job in retail, you don’t get the chance to get off your feet.
The worst part if knowing that I’ll probably forget all of this in 30 to 40 years and still ask these awkward questions.
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